[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/jaka-vychova-je-spravna\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/jaka-vychova-je-spravna\/","headline":"Jak\u00e1 v\u00fdchova je spr\u00e1vn\u00e1?","name":"Jak\u00e1 v\u00fdchova je spr\u00e1vn\u00e1?","description":"Co je vlastn\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova? Jak poznat, \u017ee ta Va\u0161e je zrovna ta prav\u00e1 spr\u00e1vn\u00e1? Rodi\u010de u sv\u00fdch prvorozen\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed mnohdy nev\u00ed, co d\u011blat, aby vychovali d\u00edt\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u011b, aby nebylo zbyte\u010dn\u011b rozmazlen\u00e9 a aby z n\u011bj naopak nevyrostli nevychovan\u00fd spratek. Jak na spr\u00e1vnou v\u00fdchovu je ot\u00e1zka za v\u0161echny prachy. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy miminko teprve \u010dek\u00e1me,…","datePublished":"2022-03-22","dateModified":"2023-05-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/60cfa630c84b6c399b95e807e4bc5b6bfe4f26a47dceacbf179d7148760edc6a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/60cfa630c84b6c399b95e807e4bc5b6bfe4f26a47dceacbf179d7148760edc6a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"decuss.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/education-gfc445a6f7_1920_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/education-gfc445a6f7_1920_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/jaka-vychova-je-spravna\/","about":["\u017dena"],"wordCount":618,"articleBody":"Co je vlastn\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova? Jak poznat, \u017ee ta Va\u0161e je zrovna ta prav\u00e1 spr\u00e1vn\u00e1?Rodi\u010de u sv\u00fdch prvorozen\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed mnohdy nev\u00ed, co d\u011blat, aby vychovali d\u00edt\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u011b, aby nebylo zbyte\u010dn\u011b rozmazlen\u00e9 a aby z n\u011bj naopak nevyrostli nevychovan\u00fd spratek. Jak na spr\u00e1vnou v\u00fdchovu je ot\u00e1zka za v\u0161echny prachy. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy miminko teprve \u010dek\u00e1me, si v duchu malujeme, jak bude miminko hodn\u00e9, jak ho budeme spr\u00e1vn\u011b vychov\u00e1vat a po narozen\u00ed zjist\u00edme, \u017ee je miminko sv\u00e9hlav\u00e9, m\u00e1 svou (mnohdy) tvrdohlavou povahu a pak naj\u00edt spr\u00e1vnou cestu k v\u00fdchov\u011b je o\u0159\u00ed\u0161ek. Jsou i rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159esto\u017ee nev\u00ed, jak spr\u00e1vn\u011b vychov\u00e1vat, p\u0159evezmou v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 styly ze sv\u00e9 p\u016fvodn\u00ed rodiny a t\u00edm se \u0159\u00edd\u00ed. Kdo v\u0161ak nem\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 vzpom\u00ednky z v\u00fdchovy sebe sama (coby d\u00edt\u011bte), mus\u00ed j\u00edt cestou pokus-omyl.V\u00fdchovn\u00e9 stylyNa jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b jsou rodiny, kter\u00e9 vy\u017eaduj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fd (direktivn\u00ed) styl v\u00fdchovy, kdy d\u00edt\u011b mus\u00ed m\u00edt \u0159\u00e1d a discipl\u00ednu a bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b poslechnout. Mnohdy tento v\u00fdchovn\u00fd styl m\u016f\u017ee pomoci, ale jsou d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 jsou na p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9 podm\u00ednky a sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem omezov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011btsk\u00e9 svobody h\u00e1kliv\u00e9, zaseknou se a prost\u011b p\u0159es to vlak nejede. V tu chv\u00edli vznikaj\u00ed prvn\u00ed konflikty. V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy doch\u00e1z\u00ed u d\u00edt\u011bte k tomu, \u017ee m\u00e1 st\u00e1le strach a boj\u00ed se cokoliv ud\u011blat, aby to nebylo \u0161patn\u011b, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b aby nep\u0159i\u0161el trest za cokoliv \u0161patn\u00e9ho.Naopak na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b jsou rodiny s liber\u00e1ln\u00edm p\u0159\u00edstupem k v\u00fdchov\u011b, kdy d\u00edt\u011bti dovol\u00ed tak\u0159ka v\u0161echno a sna\u017e\u00ed se b\u00fdt jejich kamar\u00e1dem, nikoliv rodi\u010dem. I tato v\u00fdchova m\u00e1 sv\u00e1 specifika, sv\u00e9 v\u00fdhody i nev\u00fdhody. Rozhodn\u011b takt\u00e9\u017e nen\u00ed cestou ide\u00e1ln\u00ed.Podle Lucie Konnigov\u00e9, autorky sv\u011btozn\u00e1m\u00e9ho bestselleru Negramotn\u00fd rodi\u010d je nejv\u00fdhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchova takov\u00e1, kter\u00e1 je p\u0159esn\u011b mezi p\u0159\u00edsnou a liber\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchovou, aby d\u00edt\u011b m\u011blo sv\u016fj prostor, kde se m\u016f\u017ee svobodn\u011b projevovat.T\u0159et\u00ed prostorBritsk\u00fd psychoanalytik Donald W. Winnicott kdysi psal o tom, \u017ee je pot\u0159eba, aby byl rodi\u010d natolik vzd\u00e1len a nabl\u00edzku, aby mohl vzniknout t\u0159et\u00ed prostor, kter\u00fd umo\u017en\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti m\u00edt sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed prostor, ve kter\u00e9m bude i nebude rodi\u010di nabl\u00edzku. Kdy\u017e je rodi\u010d d\u00edt\u011bti a\u017e moc nabl\u00edzku, vznikaj\u00ed z toho neseparovan\u00e9 d\u011bti a naopak, kdy\u017e je rodi\u010d a\u017e moc vzd\u00e1len\u00fd d\u00edt\u011bti, vznikaj\u00ed deprimovan\u00e9 d\u011bti.5 mezn\u00edk\u016f spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 v\u00fdchovymilujte d\u011bti bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b (l\u00e1ska rodi\u010d\u016f mus\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1zet st\u00e1le, nejen ve chv\u00edli, kdy je d\u00edt\u011b hodn\u00e9),p\u0159ijm\u011bte d\u011bti takov\u00e9, jac\u00ed jsou (d\u00edt\u011b je jedinec se sv\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edmi a tu\u017ebami a nemus\u00ed t\u00edm p\u00e1dem spl\u0148ovat to, co si pro n\u011bj rodi\u010de p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed),jsem rodi\u010d, ne B\u016fh (je pot\u0159eba m\u00edt z rodi\u010d\u016f respekt a ne se jich b\u00e1t),bu\u010fte d\u011btem vzorem (pokud n\u011bco po d\u00edt\u011bti chcete, v\u017edy jim uka\u017ete, \u017ee to tak\u00e9 dodr\u017eujete nap\u0159. \u017ee tak\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te na kole helmu),berte d\u011btstv\u00ed jako z\u00e1bavu, ne d\u0159inu (dop\u0159ejte d\u011btem z\u00e1bavu, nikoliv \u00fakoly a na\u0159izov\u00e1n\u00ed).                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.6\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak\u00e1 v\u00fdchova je spr\u00e1vn\u00e1?","item":"https:\/\/www.decuss.cz\/jaka-vychova-je-spravna\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]